I’d like to thank any woman who has had the pleasure, of loving me! No, I’m really serious!
It must have been hard to care for me, someone who has, apparently, been destructive to your life, hates everything you do, is very impatient, controlling, short tempered, moans, complains a lot and constantly notices things I don’t [...]
Posted by BlackMan at 08:12:48 on August 4th, 2008 in Relationships
No Comments »Family gatherings can be bitter-sweet moments where in equal measures you’re delighted and disgusted to see old and new family members and hear of progress and developments within the unit.
For me Saturday, August 2, was one such moment where for a few hours I learnt stuff about my family (and vice versa) that we didn’t [...]
Posted by BlackMan at 23:59:17 on August 3rd, 2008 in Relationships
No Comments »It’s amazing how people who call themselves your friend can act in such very unfriendly ways, yet are convinced by keeping it “real” they are somehow helping you!
It’s not that you are afraid of the truth or reality: it could be that wherever you currently are in life you may not be ready, able or [...]
Posted by BlackMan at 23:59:50 on August 1st, 2008 in Relationships
No Comments »A cow never knows the use of its tail until it’s chopped off! Or, in other words, you never realise how much you’ll miss someone or something until they/it is no longer available to you or near you.
I’ve lost count of the number of sayings I know which illustrate this theme. Absence makes the heart [...]
Posted by BlackMan at 23:59:09 on July 24th, 2008 in Relationships
No Comments »Have you ever notice how people judge you based on who they see you walking down the street with? It seems that people, regardless of their react, colour, culture or creed, try to make an assumption on you and depending on the verdict, whether they approve or not, they will pass judgement on you!
I found [...]
Posted by BlackMan at 23:59:15 on July 21st, 2008 in Relationships
No Comments »The biggest lesson I’ve learnt this week is that a lion should always mate with a lioness. Should a lion choose a lamb, for instance, to be his partner, then the union will most probably end in disaster.
You’d think that this was a fundamental point of understanding in relationship dynamics, right? Well, sometimes we love [...]
Posted by BlackMan at 23:59:25 on July 17th, 2008 in Relationships
No Comments »A Caucasian (read eastern European white) friend had the shock of her life the other day with playful her arms lovingly locked with mine as we trod along the high street. She just couldn’t believe the kind of disapproving looks of resentment, hatred or venom she was getting from on-coming (mainly Black) people.
I wasn’t [...]
Posted by BlackMan at 23:59:02 on July 16th, 2008 in Relationships
No Comments »What’s with Black people publicly pretending to hate whit people when in private they have many white friends?
It’s a question I ask myself (and others) quite often because I see a lot of people tell you straight (or at least give that impression) that they don’t really like white (or Black) people, but on closer [...]
Posted by BlackMan at 23:59:14 on July 12th, 2008 in Relationships
No Comments »I once met a white woman who told me straight out that she was only dating me out of guilt. When I asked her to elaborate she said she felt guilty about her race and how white people treated Black people 400 years or so ago.
This was a bit startling, to tell you the truth, [...]
Posted by BlackMan at 23:59:25 on July 11th, 2008 in Relationships
No Comments »A female friend pulled me up the other day about my relationship with a white woman. “So, you’re dating white?” she asked. It had the effect more of a stick up than a question. It also sounded as if there was a little bit of jealousy and “what’s wrong with dating Black women” in there [...]
Posted by BlackMan at 23:59:28 on June 17th, 2008 in Relationships
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